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Marietta was among the dozen or so guests already seated at the table when he finally arrived, half frozen, snow still clinging to his hair.

“I couldn’t tell you who else was in the room that night,” Stephen said like a bashful teenager, years later.

Morrison-Gurza concludes his piece with an insight for both people with disabilities interested in dating, as well as for their potential partners.

However, both offerings of advice seem to be connected through the common foundation of the fact that no-one really knows what they are doing – there are no strict rules, there is no recipe for perfection.

Around the idea of the help/personal care concern, Morrison-Gurza states that, “One of the most anxious moments of any date for a cripple is that moment wherein you realize that you actually need help with something.” He continues; “Imagine you have survived a night of awkwardly navigated crip-sex (and the guy actually stayed the night), only for you to wake up and need to pee.

Under normal circumstances, you’d call your care-worker in to help, or pee in your leg bag (urine bag) and take care of this. This beautiful stranger who actually stuck around, can never actually know how much work is involved with you…you must pass as able at all costs.” Finally, the ‘boyfriend’ concern comes from the commonly-felt fear that a partner will gradually turn into an attendant, rather than a lover.

Is it required to even share information about a disability at all, or is that more of a third date conversation?

Luckily, many different disability rights activists are speaking out and giving advice on the topic of dating with a disability.

Romantic love depends on intangible qualities that can be affected by a person’s physical condition—but usually aren’t.

The heart-pounding when you see your crush walk by, pre-date jitters when picking out an outfit – these are not unfamiliar feelings.

However, this uncertainty around dating and relationships can often be heightened for people with disabilities. If it is an invisible or not obviously-apparent disability, when should it be disclosed?

That’s when he saw a detail that stopped him in his tracks: Marietta was in a wheelchair.

Her legs were small compared to the rest of her body. “I was used to suddenly becoming invisible to someone I was interested in.

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