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You don't know if you are meeting the real person or who they want to project to you. When you find yourself and are happy with your self you may find you don't need or want anyone else in your life!
A relationship requires coordination and consideration...spontaneity even if two people are both exactly same in spontaneity, it creates a lot of problem especially when kids come...cause an individual cannot see beyond his/her needs.
What I found with my clients and my own dating history, is to look for someone who is someone you respect and show kindness. If they are inconsiderate of others in your presence- then one day they may be the same to you.
These usually include various physical attributes, intelligence levels, and personality quirks.
Most of these are deemed important to the individual doing the qualifying.